The day before he was born (Monday) I felt REALLY uncomfortable. I took Emery swimming at my moms that afternoon and I started having contractions. They were about an hour apart so I didn't think anything of it really except that they actually were kind of painful.
Skip to the night. I could not sleep. The contractions still were coming about 15 minutes apart and they were hurting my back. I packed my bag. I took a hot shower, they kept coming but they weren't coming closer than ten minutes apart at this point so I gave up and was finally able to get some sleep.
I woke up at 7 when Court's alarm went off for work. I was laying there and felt another contraction and then a little leak. I yelled to Court, "I think my water just broke!"
"No," he said, "really?"
"I don't know. No I am just over reacting probably" I said this on the way towards the bathroom.
Well as soon as I reached it...there was a nice splash onto our bathroom floor coming from me.
"Okay, it did," I said smiling.
A phone call to mom and a shower later we were off to the hospital and arrived at 8AM. I was dilated to a 4 and his head was at a -1 I believe.
I got to the delivery room and my mom got there about an hour after us. My contractions were coming closer together and were all in my back. Not comfortable! We had fun talking and I was feeling grateful that everything was progressing so smoothly. I was nervous since I was having a Vbac.
I had to lay on my side for awhile with the peanut ball between my knees to flip our Crew man because he was sunny side up and thats why I felt the contractions in my back so strong.
I love the feeling I have before my babies get here. I loved it when I had Emery and I loved it this time. Knowing, waiting and just anticipating that little one coming. That in just a moment away you will have all this love for a new little person. You wonder what they'll look like and just can't wait for your life to change forever once they're out.
4 Hours after we got to the hospital I was dilated to a 6. I got the epidural when I was dilated to a 7. Baby had turned the right way and I was pushing about 20 minutes after the epidural. Pushing was kind of hard just because I couldn't feel a thing any more. Towards the end of pushing I could feel the pressure from a contraction so it was easier to push. After 1 hour of pushing out he came!
It was a surreal moment for me. I had wanted a regular birth with Emery so bad and was so sad when I had to get a c-section. I was so happy to have this experience and truly loved every part of my labor and delivery. I soaked it all up. It is really such an amazing thing to go through. And then when this happened...
His perfect, little body placed on me. My favorite part by far . The love that just surges into you and in the room hits like a ton of bricks.
Everyone kept saying how handsome he was. I have to agree :)
6lbs. 15oz. , 20 1/4 inches long. Not bad for an almost 37 week-er.
This was another 'love surge' moment. Having my sunshine Em meet her baby brother. She just kept saying baby and then came and sat with her mommy and held brothers hand.
Best Daddy around. I sure do love these two guys.
Leaving the hospital.
At home.
Life has been an adjustment since that wonderful day one month ago, but it is starting to get easier. Crew is a pretty good little babe. Nursing has been a little challenging for him but he is getting much better! He likes to eat every 1.5-2hours. I am getting so good at doing things one handed! He usually only eats about 20 minutes, but he likes to eat a lot longer in the evenings. He tends to get fussier in the evenings too, but during the day is sweeter than can be. Poor little guy swallows and gulps and gets lots of air when he eats because my milk flows like Niagra Falls so he gets pretty gassy and that makes him fuss, but that seems to be improving as well.
He does not like being tired. He will cry until he is swaddled tight, or put on his tummy with a pacifier. Nights are getting better, with longer stretches between feedings (hallelujah!!!).
He is so cute when he is all awake. He just looks and looks around. He looks so curious about everything. I love his eyes all open and that he is awake a lot more during the day now. He has such cute, big eyes. I think he is nice and use to Em's loud-ness and not so gentle cuddles. I love when she wants to hold him.
He loves being in the baby bjorn, hates being in the car seat and loves his swing and being on moms chest.
We sure are glad our guy is here now and are enjoying the somehow calming spirit that always comes with the presence of a new babe that can be felt even among the more crazy times :)
